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The Lonelier Power: How U.S. Unilateralism Is Turning Allies Into Strangers



I was in my kitchen this morning with coffee going cold on the counter, scrolling on my phone, and I had that feeling again. The one I keep getting lately. None of this adds up unless you stop believing the old story.

The old story was that America led by building things that lasted. Alliances, trust, showing up for your friends even when it cost you something. At the very least, pretending there was a difference between us and the strongmen we were always warning everyone about.

Then you look at this week’s headlines and it doesn’t read like a superpower. It reads like a pawn shop.

There are new visa bonds for people from dozens of countries. Want to visit your kid, close a deal, go to a wedding? Put money down first and prove you’ll leave. There are more carrier groups headed for the Middle East, because it’s always more ships. There are trade deals that, if you read the fine print, still have Russian diesel floating around in them. And then the big one, a trade truce with China pushed out to early 2027, which happens to land conveniently after the midterms.

I’m not naive. Every country looks out for itself, and foreign policy has always been cold when it needed to be. But I think there’s a real difference between strategic and transactional. Being strategic means taking a hit now because you’ll need that ally in five years. Being transactional means squeezing whoever’s standing in front of you because all that matters is the next quarter, the next headline, the next poll about gas prices or the border. I think we’ve gone well past that line.

Take the visa bonds. On paper it’s a bit of bureaucracy. But think about what it says to the person on the other end: we don’t trust you, we don’t really want you, and if you do want in, pay up front. A family visit turns into a collateral deal.

The carriers are similar. There are real threats over there, and real chaos, I’m not pretending otherwise. But next to everything else it feels less like leadership and more like flexing, like we’re trying to own the board instead of playing on it.

As for the Russian diesel, I don’t care how the lawyers spin it. You can’t stand up and say you’re punishing Russia over Ukraine while somebody in the chain is still selling its fuel and everyone looks the other way. Maybe it’s legal, maybe it’s a loophole, maybe it’s just business. That’s exactly my point, because these days it’s always just business.

The China truce fits the same pattern. We didn’t solve anything, we hit pause and kicked the can to 2027 so nobody has to deal with the mess before an election. I wouldn’t call that foreign policy. It’s campaign strategy that got a passport.

What gets to me most is what this does to the people who used to count on us. Our allies aren’t stupid. They see the bonds and the ships. They see us talking tough on Russia one day and buying its diesel the next, talking tough on China and then cutting a quiet truce when it suits. They remember Afghanistan, they remember the tariffs, they remember every time we told them one thing and did another.

So they hedge. They start phoning each other and building their own workarounds, their own currency swaps, security pacts and trade routes. They don’t suddenly love Beijing or Moscow. They just can’t afford to depend on a partner who might rewrite the rules on a Tuesday because a poll came in badly.

That’s what I mean by a lonelier power. We’re not isolated in the classic sense, since we’re still everywhere, sanctioning and deploying and negotiating. But we’re doing it alone. We’re not leading a bloc anymore, we’re daring everyone else to keep up, and the more we do that, the less they wait for our call. They’re building another table and making plans that don’t include us, and by the time we notice we’re no longer at the head of it, I don’t think you can buy your way back in.

I don’t have a neat answer. I wish I did. I just know that when I look at this week’s news, I don’t see the country I heard about in school. I see a guy at a flea market at closing time, trying to squeeze one more deal out of the afternoon before the lights go out, and I can’t shake the feeling that the rest of the world is already walking toward the exit

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